Why are people coming to RLC ? Some of us came for friendship, others to kill loneliness, others to tell their convictions to the world and a lot come for SEX. Yes, yes the most used words in the search engines on the web. Virtual sex and sometimes with extensions…
Nothing wrong about that and no risk getting HIV or other nasty things (exept a sore wrist). Nevertheless it’s a powerful mental play and, as Utherverse tells us, a way to extend our fantasies.
But what about the form ? Some users think that there are no boundaries exept those of the 2 dimensions. Of course as in real life we are confronted with all sorts of people with a different cultural and educational back ground, but generally speaking I find personally and especially amongst the male population a very primitive approach of sex in RLC. I am sure that most of the ladies around here heard the words: “Wana fuck” or “Somebody like to go to a room with me” so many times. It seems that most of the women around are just considered as regular hookers walking down the Red light area (That’s why Utherverse call it “the new server”, to sound more civilized). Some of the men (or women) are surprised or angry when you don’t jump at once and run to the first available room for a “Wang, Bang, Thank you Ma'am”. It’s not the fact to play “hard to catch”, but a gentle approach, a nice chat using personal charm are a part of a sensual play. Perhaps you will not get laid at the first date, but that will only make the play more enjoyable.
Recently I heard a guy complain about the fact that so many girls around are lesbian or at least bi, perhaps that’s the answer to it.
And what about the people who use a picture of their private parts as their default picture ? Well…I have nothing against the fact that they like to show their brains, perhaps next time they can try a picture of their empty head for a change. By the way concerning “oversized cocks” I noticed that some “personal pictures” are the same on several profiles, so no need to fool the world, we are not stupid.
Sensuality ! I know we are not all virtuosos of hot chat during sex but for me a partner who got his left hand hitting madly the speed chat keys and his right hand under his desk, is boring as hell. I have to admit that in that case I occupy myself to read profiles and occasionally hitting a “oh!”, a “harder!” or a “I am coming !” key to remember him (or her) my presence in the room.
Well perhaps my critics are without mercy, but I found that too many people around just think they can treat people like sh.. and forget that they deal with real people behind their keyboards.
Have fun and take care.
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Red Light Center Is the Internet's most unique social experience to adults who are open-minded and interested in exploring their sexuality. Women -- and men -- can live out any of their fantasies in an empowering and safe environment.
